CU Boulder pioneer was well-versed in love
Timothy William Stanton, who penned annual Valentineās poems to his wife for nearly a half century,Ģżwas named the class poet of the second class to graduate from CU Boulder
By the time Timothy William Stanton graduated from the University of Colorado Boulder in 1883, heād obviously made an impression upon the other six students in his class.Ģż
āTimothy was named the class poet of the second class to graduate from CU Boulder,ā says his granddaughter Carolyn Wiseman, 83, of Ann Arbor, Mich., who graduated from CU in 1957 with a degree in home economics.Ģż
Stanton actually attended the inaugural day of classes at CU Boulder, Sept. 5, 1877, as a student in a college-prep program held in Old Main. After graduation, he went on to a stellar career in geology, earning a masterās degree from CU in 1895 and heading the U.S. Geological Survey from 1930-35. Following his death in 1953,Ģżthe journal Science called Stanton āone of the outstanding figures in American geology.āĢżĢż
But his scientific career didnāt interfere with his poetic inclinations, and when he proposed to Grace Mabel Patten on Valentineās Day, 1898, he did it in verse, delivered with a bouquet of pink roses:
A Valentine to Grace
āBy Puritans and Protestants
āNo Saintās day is held dear
āSave one, that is kept sacred
āBy Lovers far and near.
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āNo creed nor land confines it,
āBut wherever hearts are true
āThat day brings to their patron saint
āThe homage that is due.
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āEach follower lays his offering
āBefore the shrine that he erects
āIn the form of that fair maiden
āWhom his loving heart selects.ā
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āAnd so, my rhymes I offer,
āMy flowers, all thatās mine āĢż
āMyself, if youāll accept me,
āTo be your Valentine.ā
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She accepted, and for every year of their life together, Stanton composed a Valentineās Day poem for her.
āI have never been able to find a sufficient excuse for breaking the habit that was then formed,ā he told his daughter Grace Stanton FansherāCarolyn Wisemanās motherāin 1941 for a self-published memoir and poetry collection,ĢżEighty Years of Joy and Gladness (Mingled with Some Work and Sadness.
With just a single gap for missing verses (1910), the family managed to save all Stantonās Valentineās verses to his wife. A few excerpts:
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The Sweetest Kiss
Feb. 14, 1909
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āWhen Grace first let her lips meet mine
āAnd said sheād be my Valentine
āI thought that neāer again such bliss
āCould come to one from any kiss.ā
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After Thirty Years
Feb. 14, 1928
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ā1898
āA question, an answer
āA promise, a kiss
āA moment of silence
āOf rapture and bliss.
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ā1928
āThat day is far distant
āBut still it seems near
āFor joys eāer recurring
āHave shortened each year.ā
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Home
Feb. 14, 1946
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āHome might be in the distant Rockies
āOr in California by the Sea.
āHome might be in Montgomery County
āOr in S Street in the D.C.
āHome might be in a foreign country
āOr in Heaven where some day it will be
āYes, wherever Grace may be staying,Ģż
āThat is home for me.ā
That last was the last of Stantonās Valentineās love letters to his wife. Grace Stanton died on July 10, 1946.Ģż
āWriting a poem to her every Valentineās day, thatās pretty romantic,ā says Wiseman, who with her husband John Wiseman (Pharmā57) established the Stanton Endowed Scholarship in geology in 2017 to honor her grandfather.
A few of Stantonās non-Valentineās verses are also collected in the memoir, including one about his daughter Grace, Wisemanās mother, the first two stanzas of which read:
Miss What-For
āāWhat for?ā is the question that Baby Grace asks
āAbout everything under the sun,
āAnd eāen when reminded of nice little tasks
āThe answer must come before theyāre done.
āāThe birds have no arms, Momma dear, such as mine
āāWhat for do they differ from me?
āāWhat for do you kiss me so much at one time?
āāIāll have to give back two or three.āā
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He was always writing poetry,ā says Wiseman, who will celebrate her 64th wedding anniversary in September. āIām sure thatās why he was the class poet at CU.ā